I had written earlier to the hosting company that I got the dedicated server from and explained my situation. The fact is, I tried a couple different distros, including debian 6 and got back complaints about the firmware needed to be loaded. Before I could try to reload the module, I was put on a HP DL160 G6 instead.
I don't know how its going to go there, but even if it goes smooth, I will continue to play with tinycorelinux on my vmware to build on what I've learned here, thanks you, danielibarnes, of course.
I don't want to play minecraft as much as I wanted to play with linux and it just seemed like a good learning opportunity to work with something that gave me a project where some friends depended on it working (the minecraft part).
You gave me really good insight and few things to chew on meanwhile, thanks again.