I now have a working midi player on my netbook. Thanks, Juanito!
I put my timidity.cfg file in ~/.config/timidity and replace /usr/local/share/timidity/timidity.cfg from bootlocal.sh.
I had no luck downloading EAW's sound font set - tried a few times, consistent tar error. For me using "source" to load SF2 files didn't work out either. The TiMidity sourceforge docs are down, but the man pages still exist for both timidity and timidity.cfg.
For loading SF2 files and storing data on a different partition, my config file follows.
timidity.cfg
#/etc/timidity.cfg
#dentonlt, Dec 2009
#RTM - man timidity.cfg
#Start by identifying the directory with your data/sound files.
#Timidity doesn't handle spaces, so use quotes if necessary.
dir "/mnt/hda4/My Dropbox/Active Projects/Linux/timidity-cfg"
#Then, identify what data will be in that directory.
#For patch sets (.pat files + .cfg file), "source" the cfg file.
#For sound fonts (.sf2 files), use "soundfont" then the file name.
source timidity-mini.cfg
soundfont TimGM6mb.sf2 order=0
soundfont Unison.sf2 order=1
soundfont Gort's-Midget_J1.SF2 order=3
#You can now put in patch/program adjustments. RTM.