Thanks guys and yes all your answers make sence but my internet connection is very fast and I have 512 mb ram with only firefox oss and flash , xfce4.
Also as far as doing or making any changes recently - I havent, infact I had the problem before this 3.7 version for the past month and that's why I was excited for the 3.7 upgrade, "thinking that maybe somehow it would help", just a hope.
As soon as I then installed 3.7 I ab firefox oss flash, and it happened immediately.
I then tried about 5 other browser and had the same result. Aswell as uninstalling flash then reinstalling.
I remember back when it use too be blazing fast for me, just 2months ago. Hmmm, and youtube IS NOT SLOW, just the video loading, but Youtube itself doesnt freeze. Also my computer doesn't freeze and it too is blazing fast. Yes, with only 512.
I noticed last night when I was haven this problem I choose to use inprivate browsing, and it was working great for about an hour straight, but strangely now it's back once again to the same loading even with inprivate browsing. errrrrrr.
Thanks for all the thoughts. hmmm