Robert
To please some people, you need to be able to read their mind, and then you can't because they change it.
I would like to see you taking a more positive approach.
People are trying to support what you are doing, and make a positive contribution, but they don't think exactly like you.
I would like to see you encouraging them. I am concerned that you may be discouraging them.
Tell us about important issues, but don't complain about trivial things.
If saying this upsets you so much that you don't want me to make any further contributions, let me know.
If you don't want me to make any further contributions, I wish you all the best in the future.