After a few tests I can't see that ICU makes any differences regarding copy/paste and hgfs shares:
tc@box:/mnt/hgfs-andy-home/test$ la
total 44
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:23 ./
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 12288 Feb 6 22:33 ../
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 воскресенье/
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 вторник/
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 понедельник/
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 пятница/
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 среда/
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 суббота/
drwxr-xr-x 1 andy 100 4096 Feb 7 04:09 четверг/
tc@box:/mnt/hgfs-andy-home/test$
I copied the days of the week in Russian from a web browser (because I don't have a Russian keyboard) into a test directory on my host and they list just fine, provided that you use rxvt, coreutils ls, and bash and have a unicode locale enabled. Then copied them back for this post. This using open-vm-tools and open-vm-tools-desktop compiled without icu. Regarding rebooting, the only power options that you can script for are poweron, poweroff, suspend, and resume. I'll patch up the source to use exitcheck.sh with an action, so it doesn't poweroff by default. If anyone has any other changes to open-vm-tools they would like to see let me know. Or if not using icu breaks Vsphere or anything else also let me know.