I made open-vm-tools by hand. Someday I'll document the process again. It's 796k and needs lots of libraries. It's too big to attach so I'll have to upload it later. If you want to try it yourself here are some hints. Create extensions for libdnet and libmspack. Along with the usual -dev libraries you'll need the procps-ng extension. Do: export RPCGEN=$(readlink -f $(which rpcgen)) and export RPCGENFLAGS="-Y $(dirname $(which cpp))" in the shell before aclocal, automake, autoconf, ./configure --without-icu --without-xerces --without-xmlsecurity --without-pam. The wiki is mostly right after this. Put these in the dep file:
Xorg-7.7-3d.tcz
graphics-KERNEL.tcz
xf86-video-vmware.tcz
xf86-input-vmmouse.tcz
gtk2mm.tcz
Make sure all the dependencies are downloaded before you try to load it. Replace aterm with lxterminal. You'll see why.
Time sync, cut/paste to/from host/vm, host shared folders, resizing of vm window (move xbar to upper left), mouse in/out grab/ungrab work.
Good luck.