2) Can you tell me how you did it in your option 2 because that is the circumstances I am looking for help with.
Searching back in thread for occurrence, rather surprisingly it was
you posting a detailed step-by-step howto (Reply #8), that is exactly how I would do it.
You seem to constantly avoid helping me, I don't understand why it should be so difficult for you to help.
If I had wanted to avoid to help you, I could just have stopped posting, but if you don't appreciate my help and apparently also not the help of several others, then I can still just do that.
I play guitar, if someone asks me how I play something and I know how to do it I tell or show them ...... I don't hint at it or tell them to go and study music.
I am unaware of housecalls being organized through this forum, it's all writing and reading, and often pointing to suitable documentation is one of the best services which could be rendered to someone searching to deal with a subject, as not everyone who has knowledge would be a good doc writer or teacher.
Speaking from own experience, when I decided I wanted to start bothering with WPA, I was reading for 2 weeks about it until I was confident enough to start practicing, first all related official documentation (wpa_supplicant and friends), and then what ever I could google about the subject, wikis, howtos, tech sites and blogs etc. etc.