For your kmap suggestion. I installed it just then, but still the keyboard problem remains. I even added "kmap=us" to the grub bootcode under menu.lst
I'm also giving openssh a try, its not working at the moment, but I'm sure its a setting problem. How does dropbear compare to it anyway, some form post said openssh is better than dropbear.
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Optional readings about my experience after successfully installing tiny core via the manual method:
Manual install method worked for me, however it was quite an involved process. At least for me.
I would love to have a console based installer that is aimed specifically at installing to hdd.
My experience with TC-Install is that it doesn't work for usb or hdd installs. One of my guesses is that the GUI takes too much memory. For install, would it be possible to have a semi-gui in console for tc-install? (kinda like how there is kind of a gui in "bios setting screen".), and perhaps be able to access it from the start menu?
However a part of me also thinks that the problem is not quite with the tc-install GUI (as it loaded for me, on manual loading of that app), but rather with the internal installation process of tc-install, though I cannot comment on it as I don't know how it compares to manual install. Maybe a auto script version of the manual install in console would be workable?