Success!
Well after looking over all the online documents, checking and double checking my configurations, etc.,
I decided to start with a clean slate.
On the little mini-ITX box I copied /mnt/hda1/tce/optional to a USB stick.
On the Mint-Debian box, I booted with the TinyCore 3.7 CD. After boot I used AppBrowser to install (using "local" and the USB stick") filesystems-2.6.33.3-tinycore and nfs-utils. Started portmap and nfs-client from the "system tools / services" menu.
mount -t nfs 192.168.1.11:/mnt/sda1 /mnt/nfs-client1 and allw worked as it should! I could even see
the "daemon.notice mountd authenticated mount request" in the /var/log/messages from syslogd!
I guess my Mint-Debian box is broken
or I have something misconfigured on that side. The error
message I was getting made it look like the TC server was "refusing the connection" but now I'm pretty
sure the "request" was never making it to the TC server.
Anyway, now I have 2 TC boxes running and plan to to a hard drive install on the box running
Mint-Debian. This has been a great learning process. The more I study the architecture of your
distro, I can see lots of advantages and lots of flexibility. Now I'm off to SANED and CUPS!
Thanks again for your great work and your help!