Hi Rich
Hi Juanito
@Juanito i follow your step and rebuild an ice.ko version 1.16.3 again 
use ice.ko that compile by myself to replace the orginal ice ko  then load it
#cp ice.ko /lib/modules/6.1.2-tinycore64/kernel/drivers/net/ethernet/intel/ice/.
#mv ice.ko.gz ~/ice.ko.gz.bak
#cd /lib/modules/6.1.2-tinycore64/kernel/drivers/net/ethernet/intel/ice/
#gzip ice.ko
#depmod -a
# modprobe -r ice
# modprobe ice
# lldpctl eth0
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
LLDP neighbors:
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Interface:    eth0, via: LLDP, RID: 1, Time: 0 day, 00:17:52
  Chassis:
    ChassisID:    xxxx
    SysName:      xxxx
    SysDescr:     xxxx
    MgmtIP:       xxxx
    MgmtIface:    83886080
    Capability:   Bridge, on
    Capability:   Router, on
  Port:
    PortID:       xxx
    PortDescr:    xxxx
    TTL:          xxx
  VLAN:         xxx
  Unknown TLVs:
    TLV:        xxx
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
So thanks for your help @Rich @Juanito
and i think ice driver in tinycore 14 for e810 xxv has some bug