agreed this is a mistake by me, from reading about openbox allegedly using feh to set wallpaper.
I have used openbox autostart to set wallpaper using stuff from .xsession and it works
above image is work in progress for openbox on 64 bit.
its a link and as I failed to give a good tip, please please delete entire thread.
thanks in advance
trivia, the only reason for opera icon not showing it because its not loaded